COURTSHIP; TO KISS OR NOT TO.....let's reason together (Part 2)

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(Continued from part 1)

I've heard some people say that having your first kiss on your wedding night is the sweetest kiss ever. I really do believe it because it's a kiss with no hold back, no guilt nor shame, a kiss with no restraint that you don't want it to lead to sexual intercourse, a kiss you do with mental, emotional, psychological and spiritual relaxation (you're just rested!) because you know you're doing the right thing at the right time with the one you love and have decided to spend the rest of your life with......how won't it be sweet? You and I know that we enjoy the food we eat while relax more than the one we eat quickly because we're rushing somewhere.

Even if you've been kissing your fiance before now, you can stop today and wait until you're married. If you've never, please wait for your first kiss with earnest expectation. Those that have practised 'no kissing rule' says it is the sweetest! Let it not just be 'somebody says', decide to experience it too, and you'll also be able to encourage the younger generation; spurring them to keep themselves pure for God in courtship. May God give you the grace to wait for the right time in Jesus name (Amen).

Shalom.

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