HAS HE ACTUALLY PROPOSED? (Danger of undefined relationship)

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Hey Ladies, a man has not proposed until he has actually proposed. Don't be deceived by friendliness. A man can be friendly without meaning anything serious. Several ladies have had themselves to blame due to ignorance of this. Until a man says these words to you:
'WILL YOU MARRY ME?' or 'I WILL LIKE TO MARRY YOU',
 
then, he has not committed himself! If he says it in another way, ask him:
'WHAT DOES THAT SUPPOSE TO MEAN?'

Never assume what he says is a proposal until the word 'MARRY' is included!

If you're very warm and receptive, men will naturally 'flow' towards you because they see another 'mummy' in you. However, the irony of it is that at that point, a lady's emotion gets heightened and she thinks the guy desires to start a relationship with her. This event is quite common in Higher institutions of learning. Helloooo, guard your emotion and be analytical. If he's rallying around you too often, don't be shy to ask him what his intention is. Sincerely, you may be surprised at his response! 

Lady, don't condone 'Canopy Ministry' around you, i.e. a man brooding over you and shielding you from other suitors. Once other guys see him around you everytime, they are likely to think you're courting. Hey, he has not broken your heart by introducing you to his fiancee after being close to you for a long time oooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Shalom.

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