IT IS THE GIFT OF GOD

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Companionship is God’s idea; none was created to feel fulfilled in isolation!

It is the gift of God if you have someone that corrects and rebukes you lovingly.......such maximises you and brings out the best in you.

It is the gift of God if you can breath normally by yourself without being placed on oxygen.......I once met a woman who was on oxygen 24/7 of the week! 

It is the gift of God if you have someone you can chat with or share your innermost thought with.......some have died of depression due to loneliness.

It is the gift of God if there is someone to meet at home and give you a cuddle when you close at work.......it is refreshening as it helps to unwind from the day’s activities.

It is the gift of God if you have someone that exhorts and affirms you.......such helps you to face life with courage and confidence.

It is the gift of God if you have someone to rejoice or comfort you.......it makes the joyful moment sweeter and the sad moment bearable. Imagine a bride that distributed 500 invitations and only 10 people showed up at her wedding, or someone that just lost a loved one and had none to comfort her! 

It is the gift of God if you have a bedmate (spouse, child or sibling) that rolls over you at night occasionally and disturbs your sleep.......please gently push him/her back to his/her position, some people crave for such!
It is the gift of God if you see someone beside you when you wake up in the morning, and you naughtily pull his/her nose.......it gladdens the heart.

It is the gift of God if you can defeacate via the anus.......remember, some carry colostomy bag around.
It is the gift of God if you have someone to honestly tell you ‘I WILL MISS YOU’ as you fulfil your days on earth and about to take your last breath…………. 

Sometimes, if you have not lacked a good thing before having it, you may not really know its worth. Never see any good thing in your life as a common or general blessing, it is not! What you have in excess, somebody lacks it. Notwithstanding, if you lack any of the gifts I’ve mentioned above and you really desire it, ask God in faith and wait patiently for it, YOUR JOY WILL SOON BE FULL!!!

Shalom.

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